Is This You?

You've built the resume…


You've held the family down…


You've lead the room, the team and the vision.


You've been the “strong, independent woman” that society celebrates.


The woman who never misses a deadline… 


Never drops the ball


And just never says never…


But in the quiet moments you wonder:


Who’s holding me?


Where do I go to be poured into not just pulled from?


What would it feel like to lead from wholeness instead of hustle?


You're “performing” peace while your soul is stuck in survival mode.


You're tired of chasing love that doesn't meet you where you are.


You're tired of craving softness in a world that only rewards strength.


You're tired of doing everything right, yet still feeling misaligned.


You've made “strength” your signature but deep down you know it's time for a change.


This is your invitation not to do more but to return to who you were before the world told you to shrink.


Whether you're rebuilding after burnout…

 

Shedding old patterns 


Or standing at the edge of the new version of yourself.


You know something has to shift.


Something deep within you is whispering…


"There has to be more than this."


And you're right…


I know that feeling because I've been there too…


I’ve faced heartbreak, emotional breakdowns, deep disappointments, and failure.


I tried all the meditations, affirmations, and inner work everyone talks about.


But somehow, nothing seemed to truly heal the pain inside.


That’s when I decided to go back to my roots.


Raised and nurtured by a powerful coven of matriarchs…


I realized I had access to ancestral wisdom that runs deeper than any modern self-help trend.


This wisdom gave me the clarity I had been searching for.


It was at this moment I decided to choose myself in a major way.


I knew I couldn’t keep living the same way...


So, I made some big changes in my life (that scared me at the time)


I quit the job that was draining me…


Created a sacred self-care plan…


And stepped into the woman who didn’t just deserve everything she wanted…


But actually got everything she wanted.


In the space of those few years I've been able to:


✔️ Build a profitable business that allows me to live fully in my softness—without burning out.


✔️ Create a loving relationship where I can completely be myself and be cherished for it.


✔️ Heal from the heartbreaks and disappointments that left me feeling like a shadow of myself.


And while all of that feels amazing…


What truly lights me up every day is knowing I get to help other women reclaim their softness, heal deeply, and find lasting peace — just like I did.

What Others Are Saying

““Working with Fila was one of the best decisions I ever made! I learned so much about myself - the good and the bad. I am now able to recognize unhealthy patterns within myself and correct them. My relationships are flourishing because I chose to work with Fila.””

EBERENNE IGBOKWE PHYSICIAN - TX

““My life has changed since working with Fila. I am no longer everyone’s doormat and have learned to put myself first. The tools provided by Fila with the development of my personal self-care plan and the replay of our sessions allow me to continue to identify and work on my issues. These tools keep me going and help me get back on and/or stay on track. Fila, thank you for teaching me about self-care, helping me to identify the simple things I enjoy in life (never grasped the fact I like nature, but it clicked when you said it) and encouraging me to be myself unapologetically””

JENNIFER KEITH-SEAWRIGHT BUSINESS OWNER - NY

““Prior to my coaching session with Fila I was so uncertain about myself and it was negatively affecting my relationships, my family, and my personal/professional growth. Fila has given me simple yet powerful tools that made a major impact on my life and relationships. I feel more confident than ever before and I'm thriving in my personal life and in my career thanks to my coaching with Fila””

HELEN TUCKER TOP REAL ESTATE PROFESSIONAL - VA

““I worked with Fila in her Sacred Self coaching program. To say that it was a life changing experience is an understatement! I was tired of repeating unhealthy patterns and needed to do something to ascend to a higher, wiser, more disciplined version of myself - - so I joined Fila's program. My vision for my life has never been clearer and I have never been more intentional with my decisions!””

EVANGELINE GREGG MSW - NY

““Coaching with Fila has helped me gain trust in myself and release the fear I've felt. It's funny to think I hesitated on making this commitment, because now it feels like the sexiest commitment to my highest self! I'm now able to commit to myself and trust my decisions to go for what I want!””

LAUREN KLEIN ARTIST - MEXICO CITY

““Working with Fila in her Sacred Self coaching program taught me how to become a better partner in my relationship!””

DIANA ESQUIVEL MOM - NY

““One of my biggest lessons has been the need to invest in myself more. What shifted this for me was working with Fila - first at her live Reclaim Your Power event, then joining her in her Sacred Self coaching program. It made me realize how important it is to talk out your shit and build community with others.””

DARA DANIELLE REGISTERED NURSE/YOGA INSTRUCTOR - BROOKLYN

““Working with Fila changed the game for me. The tools she provided helped push me forward. Now I'm learning to love on me & set standards for anyone coming into my life!””

JUDITH DANIEL SURGICAL TECHNICIAN - BRONX

““Our sessions broke my spirit and freed a woman that I did not even know existed. I have battled myself on so many levels. Now I am understanding that my choices are the major factors to enjoying who I will be tomorrow. Being open about who I was, understanding how I had gotten there, and forgiving myself has changed my life. Thank you for helping me help myself. I am blessed to have connected with you.””

NATALYN OBEY SALON OWNER - MARYLAND

“ “Sacred Self was the group of all groups! Working with Fila was an amazing experience that I highly recommend!””

JESSICA BRATHWAITE PHD - BROOKLYN

Introducing The New Queendom

The New Queendom is a 12-month coaching experience for women who are ready to stop shrinking and start reigning.


The New Queendom is the sacred, soul-rooted experience designed by Fila Antwine — a spiritual disruptor, ancestral wisdom-keeper, and transformative coach with a legacy rooted in matriarchal strength.


Fila doesn’t coach from textbooks.


She coaches from lived experience, divine download, and legacy calling.


Raised and mentored by a powerful coven of matriarchs, Fila was summoned into this work offering not just empowerment, but reclamation for high-achieving Black women and women of color who are ready to feel, heal, and lead again.


Inside The New Queendom you don’t just earn your crown.


You remember it.


WHO THIS IS FOR:


THE BURNED OUT BOSS: 


You've built your success by playing the game but the game was never designed for your rest, softness or joy.


You've achieved what others only dream of yet you still feel disconnected.


How long can you pour from an empty cup before something breaks.


The RULE path teaches you how to lead from sovereignty not survival.


You'll master new standards, rituals and rhythms that restores your brilliance without burning out.


THE SACRED REBEL


You've left the old path but the new one hasn't fully revealed itself yet.


You're in the in between. Unsettled but awakening. You know you're meant for more but the clarity hasn't come.


What if your confusion is actually the birthing of your next era?


The ROYAL path guides you into deep healing, sacred identity and emotional wholeness.


You'll rebuild your foundation in a way that feels aligned, intuitive and soul led.


FOR THE QUIET ACHE QUEEN 


Your career is tight. Your smile is polished. But your heart?


Your heart still hopes for a love that sees you.


You're tired of chasing affection and negotiating your needs.


How much longer will you accept half hearted connections just to avoid being alone?


The REIGN path helps you embody magnetic feminine energy, develop dating strategy and redefine your romantic standards —  so love begins within and radiates outwards.

Here's How It Works

There are 3 different paths in the new Queendom.


So all you have to do once you join us is choose your starting path then complete all 3 at your own pace.


Each Path Has:


✅ 4 weekly modules with guided video lessons 

✅ Integration exercises to ground the work in real life 

✅ Recap and reflection video to close each course with clarity.

✅ A special “crowning ceremony” to celebrate the completion of your full transformation.


WHAT YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH 


> Emotional healing that finally sticks 

>  Freedom from old patterns and toxic loops

> A sacred sisterhood that supports and stretches you

> Standards in love, leadership, and life that honor your soul

> A return to your own voice, body, and divine intuition

> Confidence that isn’t performative it’s embodied.


This is what happens when you choose yourself.


SPECIAL BONUSES 


Your access to The New Queendom includes:


● 12 month access to all 3 Queendom Paths — ROYAL, REIGN, and RULE.

● Full membership in the Sacred Queen Support System™

● Exclusive bonus rituals, private challenges, and transformative tools.

● Invitation to the Sovereign Queen Crowning Ceremony.

● Direct access to a culturally-rooted container led by a woman who has walked it and won’t let you fold.

JOIN THE NEW QUEENDOM

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THE SACRED QUEEN SUPPORT SYSTEM™


This isn’t a feel-good Facebook group.


This is high-standard sisterhood where the women walking beside you are also walking themselves home. 


You’ll gain access to a protected, powerful community of women who are

committed to their healing and their sovereignty.


Together, you’ll hold each other accountable not to perfection, but to presence.


Not to performance, but to power.


You’ve invested in your degrees.


You’ve invested in your business.


You’ve invested in keeping everyone else afloat.


This is your moment to invest in what can never be outsourced—your becoming.


There will always be another bill. Another task. 


Another reason to wait.


But this?


This is the moment you stop waiting for permission and say yes to your own return.

Bundle includes

Here are all the products that are included in your bundle.

Imagine This

 

Imagine this…


90 days from now…


You can already feel the benefits of the emotional healing.


You're at total peace with yourself.


You've reclaimed the softness you lost as a result of facing life's challenges head on.


You're finally becoming the woman you knew you could be.


You're in a thriving relationship where you don't chase affection or negotiate your needs.


All that because you took action today…


Now I don't know exactly what brought you here…


But I do know this…


You're not here by accident…


You had questions.


You wanted answers and it led you to read this entire page up to this point.


That's the part of you that's been calling for more…


…More alignment.


…More peace.


…More of you.


A part of you you've ignored right up till this point.


Quiet, wise and reserved.


Just waiting for you to give it a chance.


A chance to show you how much better life could get.


A chance to show you that this isn't your new normal.


A chance to show you what happens WHEN you choose yourself above all else.


I want you to know with my whole heart that…


…you're not too much.


…you're not too late.


…and you're not alone.


I've been in your shoes so I know how it feels.


This isn't about becoming someone new.


It's about learning to accept and come home to the woman you've always been…


Underneath all the proving, pressure and performance…


This is your reclamation not just of your time or your energy 


But of your softness, your voice and your wholeness.


What I'm offering you isn't traditional coaching but sacred mentorship.


It's self sovereignty work.


It's the kind of transformation that doesn't just change your life.


But enables you to show up as a better person for those around you.


Whether you choose to join us now or sit with this message a bit longer.


The choice is yours.


But I want you to answer this question honestly…


What would change if I stopped waiting to be chosen and started choosing myself?

Payment Options

Join The New Queendom At $2500 And Save $500 Or You Can Get In At Just $250/Month

GUARANTEES

Not explicitly offered, results are based on embodiment, presence and participation. The transformation is the guarantee.

FAQs

  • A 12-month commitment feels like a lot. What if I can't stay consistent?

    We hear you. The New Queendom is designed to honor your natural rhythms—not overwhelm them. You’ll move through each path at a sustainable pace, with built-in integration and spaciousness. Healing takes time, and this isn’t about performance—it’s about presence.

  • What if I don’t have time to complete everything each month?

    This isn’t about perfection—it’s about devotion. Each module is intentionally paced with flexibility. You’ll receive lifetime access, so there’s no rush, only reverence. You get to move in sacred time.

  • I’m private. Will I have to share everything with the group?

    No. You share only what feels right for you. There’s power in quiet transformation, and we respect every Queen’s boundaries. Whether you’re vocal or introspective, your process is sacred.

  • How do I know if it’s really worth the $2,500 investment?

    We understand the weight of that choice. What’s offered here isn’t just content—it’s an initiation into your soft power, sacred wholeness, and sovereign leadership. The return is emotional freedom, divine alignment, and the embodied ability to lead and love without shrinking. However you can use the $250/month option to see if it's the right fit for your needs.

  • Can I really justify investing this much in myself?

    You’ve poured into everyone else—your work, your relationships, your family. This is your invitation to pour into you. You are worthy of sacred investment, not just survival.

  • Is this too “woo” or too structured? I want something balanced.

    You’ll find a sacred blend of grounded tools and intuitive truth. Rituals and real-world strategy. Feminine embodiment and leadership development. It's not either/or—it’s both/and.

  • I’m not sure I’m “spiritual enough” for this kind of space. Will I fit in?

    You don’t need to be a guru—just open-hearted. Whether you're rooted in ancestral practices or simply curious about your own inner world, you’re welcome here. This is a sacred, inclusive space where authenticity is the only requirement.

  • What if I’ve already done healing work—will this still be useful?

    Absolutely. The Queendom meets you at your edge not your ego. Many women who’ve done therapy, coaching, or spiritual work say this experience took them deeper than they thought possible. This is the work beneath the work.

  • What if I don’t experience a transformation?

    Transformation is guaranteed—but it depends on your willingness to show up for yourself. This isn’t a quick fix. It’s sacred reprogramming. If you bring your presence, your softness, your truth—your life will shift.